You are not broken...
You are being broken open
You might find yourself here in the middle of something
— a loss, an ending, a transition, an unraveling.
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Or in a place where nothing is clearly defined,
…but something in your life has shifted, and you can feel it.
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Sometimes grief arrives through a single loss.
Sometimes it accumulates over years until we are carrying far more sorrow than we realize.
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Grief doesn’t always come with clear language.
And it doesn’t move at the pace the world asks of us.
This is a place for that.
To sit with what is present, without needing to resolve it, rush it, or make sense of it too quickly.
Come sit with Ash & Honey
Each month, you'll receive a love letter from the threshold — where grief and life meet.
Because even in the ash there is honey
Sorrow & Aliveness
For women carrying deep, enduring grief who long to feel fully alive again.
Many women quietly wonder:
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Why is grief still so present?
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Why does it still feel so heavy?
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Will I ever feel like myself again?
Sorrow & Aliveness explores why some grief remains with us for so long and what becomes possible when sorrow is met with understanding, compassion, and support.
Go Deeper
For those who feel called to go deeper, there are ways to work together in a more intimate and supported space.
A gentle introduction to grief tending
Understanding grief, overwhelm, and creating more capacity for sorrow
Community circles, 1:1 grief tending, and grief ritual retreats.
Grief Tendress was born from lived experience.
From sitting inside loss, transition, and the slow work of returning to self.
What lives here is shaped by ritual, presence, and a deep trust in the body’s pace.
My Journey
My name is Bindi. I offer guidance shaped by a lifetime of personal loss, caregiving, survival, and long-standing grief. All spiritual paths carry beauty and truth, yet many overlook the reality of women’s lived experience.
When I discovered the Awakening Women’s Institute and the embodied Goddess traditions, for the first time I felt at home — welcomed fully, fierce and tender alike.
This is the ground from which I walk with others in grief, in the light of the Divine and in life.
Grief is Kintsugi of the Soul
Like the Japanese art of kintsugi, where broken pottery is repaired with gold to reveal its cracks as places of beauty, grief tending honours the fractures in our hearts as sacred thresholds.
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Through loss, we are initiated—broken open into deeper truth, love, and wisdom. Rather than hiding or rushing past grief, we tend to it with compassion, courage, and ritual.
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In this way, the broken places become luminous—woven with presence, community, and reverence—so that what was once shattered emerges as strength, resilience, and radiant beauty.